Pain during sexual intercourse is called dyspareunia. This is a common problem in post menopausal women.
Why don't you talk it over to your spouse?Be honest of your feelings.

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A woman unlike a man needs a lot of stimulation before she feels aroused. I'm not sure what you guys need. More foreplay, a lot of talk and understanding and perhaps a good sex counselor for both of you.

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you are a healthy person, I think, it is a rare case that a man in his ripe age and can still do the sexual act without using medicine.

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Oh! how nice of you! I'm still in my maturity age but this mine of love can no longer do well.

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Really! Why? this may be I think that your health is not normal. You may change your life style. Take a diet and eat more fruits and vegetables.

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I dunno why your wife would not want to consult a doctor. Perhaps she is ashamed to talk about sex, perhaps she does not want to have sex anymore.

But how old do you mean ripe age??? Are you in your 80's???

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All you need to do is a little understanding..I think you have to do it in the very nice and soothing way as possible..

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Ask your wife what she would want you to do with her during sex..to make her more comfortable and to make you both satisfied in doing your sex.

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Perhaps she is undergoing menopause. this can last years and for some women they have zero sex drive... maybe your wife was just yielding to your demands for sex which is why its painful for her.

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I think you just have to understand that you and your wife are different individual..have a bit understanding and just be patience..

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