Are you a virgin? Can you sustain the erection through your nervousness?

Sexual feelings are nothing to be scared of, even priests and nuns have them. It is normal and a part of being human.

If you have a problem either getting it up or making it stay up, then you need help. Usually it is just a small physical or psychological problem. It can be solved easily.

Like the ad says: "Just do it" and see a doctor/psychologist. They can give you exercises or therapy to deal with your nervous feeling.

Or perhaps you can just have sex. It can make the anxious feeling go away and give you a confidence boost.

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Sexual feelings are normal. I get them all the time. There's nothing to be nervous about since everybody feels like having sex now and then. This is a physical response to something that is natural in all of us.

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Every time we are attracted to an opposite sex, a sensuous feeling follows,it is just a normal feeling to each human being. Your nervousness comes within but try to think positively for you have not committed a crime, so why do you get nervous. Think of the goodness of God that happened to your life now. It is just a normal feeling so you must not grind your nervousness.

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It is just a normal feeling. Just relax, take a deep breath, then release it slowly.
You may feel nervous if you do some malicious act, like rape or making exhibition of your penis in front of a girl.

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I remember it my first time. I was a nervous wreck! But after a few rolls in the hay my nervous feelings disappeared. But my sensuous feelings remained. :D

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but sensous feelings are fun and lead to more sensous feelings!

so long as you get erections and you are able to have sex and enjoy it then it should be no problem. you get nervous during the beginning but it will wear off. practice makes perfect and will boost your confidence, so just enjoy the sex, dude!

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LOL... I like the "just do it" slogan...

Anyway, to help you relax, prolong the foreplay. This should give you confidence as you tease your partner to the max!

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I think every individual has different kind of feeling on having sex..it's a normal thing actually. On your part, probably, you are still young or not so expert with it that's why you have this feeling of nervousness whenever you have already your erection. But I think later on,by means of frequent experiences you will be able to master it.

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