Impotent means that he can't get it up. But since you've had sex, then i guess impotence is not the problem.

Lifestyle choices esepcially stress and cigarette smoking can cause sperm issues. Convince your BF to have a check up to see if he is OK in this area.

BTW, are you ready to have kids? you mentioned BF, not that you need to be married to become parents... its none of my business.... so just forget this last part...

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Smoking, alcohol & drugs can certainly have very bad effects on his sperm production. If he doesn't want a checkup, perhaps he can give up his bad lifestyle and then you can try to have a baby while he's "clean".

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Make your boyfriend decide on something. If he really loves you, then he should try to be a real man..there is nothing wrong if he will have infertility test, if he really has problem of infertility, then he will be given proper treatment and solution to your problem. Then, you all be happy.

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I would say ditch the BF but you probably have "feelings" for him. Perhaps you can use these "feelings" to convince him to sober up and then It hink that the both of you should get tests.

BTW, how old are you and your BF?

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I'm 30 and he's already 35. Thanks for the advised. But your are right I do have feelings for him and I'm so in love with my boyfriend. So, it's really not easy for me to ditch him just like that. Getting both a test is good but the problem is, it's so hard for me to convince him have his test.

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it's really not easy to detect male infertility causes because some are really undetectable.

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