im the same, i couldnt do it...but it does cross my mind quite often

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I couldn't do it either, as much as I want to be TTC I still take the darn pill every morning!

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I used to feel like that when I was on BCP (Not on anything anymore). I would never have done it but it is so tempting isnt it!

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If my oh wasn't the one desperate to ttc and I was still on bc I'd def be tempted but like you guys I just couldn't do it. It's so important to me that when we're pregnant it's because both of us want it.

I know someone that openly admitted to all her friends she'd secretly stoppedtaking the pill to fall pregnant (she'd only been with this guy 6 months). She was almost bragging about it. Everyone told her how selfish she was being as she'd not once discussed it with her boyfriend, he was due to go to America with his work and she knew that. Anyway one of the people she was bragging to told her oh what she'd been saying and he confronted her. She admitted it and a few weeks later she found out she was pregnant. He was absolutely devastated. Needless to say they broke up and he went to America as planned. She's had the baby and he supports her financially and sends things for the baby all the time but all she does is badmouth him to anyone who'll listen about how he's a rubbish dad and doesn't deserve the title so she calls him the donor. It's so sad cos he's a lovely guy, he just didn't want kids.

I don't think there are many girls who would be prepared to do what she did though!

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my lovely wife too did the same...

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Hi and welcome to ttc!

I will be ttc number 2 in May when my lo is 10 months old but I just wanted to say congrats on setting a date!

Your lo is gorgeous - we had the same bath seat for Summer when she was little!

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