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mochalicious - March 29th, 2011 12:34 AM

im trying to convince hubby to go through a sperm analysis to figure out why we cant get pregnant. any tips on how to gently coax my partner to cooperate?


Sybil - March 29th, 2011 10:40 AM

perhaps he isnt ready to have a child yet yet. guys are always thinking of their macho image so you have to reassure him that it wont make him less of a man if he gets a sperm analysis. lots of guys go through this it is quite common.


Arianne23 - March 31st, 2011 3:48 PM

You could also guilt trip him. Remind him of the tests you had to udergo and how you felt during that time. This technique usually works with my partner.


Danica_california - April 14th, 2011 8:51 AM

If you have not gone yet to a doctor for a checkup, tell hubby that both of you should get checked. Marriage is not a one-way street. It requires the cooperation of both parties for it to work it. His refusal to get checked is immature and self-centered. It would be an insult to you, tell him this, if only you had the check-up while he doesn't. Don't go to lengths of threatening him. Instead, give him the cold treatment if he's still too dumb to agree to something simple. He's bound to figure it out in a few days. =D

Good luck!


Melanie - April 16th, 2011 4:33 PM

Perhaps his hesitance means that he is not ready. Perhaps he does not know how to tell you how. Talk to him.


sadiesunny - April 17th, 2011 4:06 AM

first, ask him if he's ready or not? and figure him out your desire in getting pregnant and the advatanges if he will going throug sperm analysis.


MXavier_44 - April 17th, 2011 4:12 AM

try to talk to him heartily and openly. Don't be scared but be open to him your feelings esp. if you really want to get pregnant.


a2z1977 - April 17th, 2011 4:23 AM

talk to him in a very nice way but be realistic. Just be frank to him. anywya his your husband.


casseyyou5 - April 17th, 2011 5:51 AM

if he will not be convince or understtand your needs then you can measure in that way how important you to him


Randall3 - April 17th, 2011 6:05 AM

if you did your best already to convince your husband, anyway it's for his sake, then it's up to him. You will also know how important you are to him. BUt talk it discuss it first.


vivien - April 17th, 2011 6:26 AM

i agree to you Randall3,,, if he won't still be convience then at least you have tried your part as his wife.


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