doubtful and scared

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doubtful and scared

5 posts on this thread and the last post was on March 22nd, 2011 5:59 PM by Lenny

jen - March 22nd, 2011 3:35 PM

hello everyone,

I was advised by the doctor in charge when i delivered my first baby that i have difficulty in delivery. She said my baby is 5pounds and i have difficulty in delivering her then how much more if it is more than 5pounds? Well, i'm doubtful and scared on what the doctor told me but i want to have a baby again. What to follow is it the doctor advised or my desire to have a baby?

Shairmaine - March 22nd, 2011 5:32 PM

you should face your fear. According to psychologist you will gain peace of mind and your identity once you know how to handle and fight your fear. If you like to have a baby then go for it. Just remember this, if others can then why cna't you!

Lorena - March 22nd, 2011 5:35 PM

if you follow your fear always then you will never be happy. If ever you will have difficulty in delivering a baby then i know that the doctors will always be ready on what to do for the safety of you and your baby. So, jsut go as to what you desires.

Pinky - March 22nd, 2011 5:47 PM

i think if ever this happen again that if you are getting difficult in delivery, i would rather suggest a ceasarian.

Intsik - March 22nd, 2011 5:51 PM

Hope this thoughts can help stop doubting but have a peace of mind and courage:

Will you just let this fear and doubt forever than to be truly happy? will you just be slave from this negative thought and no other thing can bring but negative impact to your thought and life?

Lenny - March 22nd, 2011 5:59 PM

Stop doubting but fight your fear. This doubts and fear can't help you. This can make you truly happy. You should not worry coz i know the doctor will help you surely if ever you have difficulty in delivering your baby next time.