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Ive had premarital sex too... and have no guilt feelings. |
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I believe premarital sex is becoming more accepted in society,and it doesn't put so much pressure on you when you get married. |
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Were you raped or something? There's help for those who were sexually abused. Perhaps you should go see a professional. |
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Premarital sex is OK just so long as you use protection. I dont see how it would make you feel guilty if it was with consent. I agree that you should seek professional help. |
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I think it's not the premarital sex that's bothering you but your conscience. |
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It's more likely that upon doing it, you really are not ready or you were just forced by your partner in doing what you said..pre marital sex...Is this so? |
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you are only bothered with your conscience if you see the act as wrong. you feel guilty because you feel that it wasnt right. |
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BTW, I forgot to mention that my first time was when I was in college at a frat party. I got drunk and had a one night stand with some guy I could not remember. Other than getting worried about STD (even if we used a condom) I had no guilt feelings despite the fact that I lost it to a total stranger! |
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Pre marital sex are very common with lots of teenagers these days. Some resulted to good and some resulted to have bad effects such as having a guilt feelings. I think if you face the consequences with maturity, you don't have any reason to felt guilty about it. But if you act the opposite way like having your baby be aborted then, your conscience will really troubles you. |
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It really depends on how you deal with it. It's up to the person who have experience it. I think if you've done it with so much love with each other then,no need to be guilty, right? |