Early Pregnancy
by Mel "speedtriple749",
a member of the
Got Pregnant community and now proud mum of Oscar
Congratulations - you've now entered
the magnificent yet sometimes scary world of pregnancy!
This is an exciting and sometimes
worrying time for a woman, especially if this is your first baby, or if you have
suffered a miscarriage in the past. Often, you may have to face a wait of
several weeks between a positive result from a home pregnancy test (because they
are so accurate these days, doctors often don't perform a seperate blood test)
and your first appointment with your doctor or midwife. It's all to easy to
think it's all going horribly wrong - or that you're imagining the whole thing!
On this page you will find many of the
things that you may (or may not!) experience, and how the ladies of the "Got Pregnant" community dealt with them. Often, just knowing that everyone
else has been through exactly the same thing is enough reassurance to make you
feel better. It's not you that is wierd, it's pregnancy!
Don't forget to mention all the niggles
and discomforts to your other half - otherwise they will have no idea what you
are going through, and then cannot be expected to be sympathetic and run around
after you! So make the most of it!
Very faint
line on a pregnancy test
Sometimes, the line that tells you that you are pregnant is so faint,
you wonder if you are imagining it all. The kits we all use at home detects
HCG, or human chorionic gonadotrophin. This hormone is produced by the
developing embyro, and gets stronger every day. Chances are, if you repeat the
test a couple of days after the faint line, the new test will show a much darker
line.
A false positive result is very rare.
If you have had a positive test result, and your period shows up a few days
later, then it's probably due to a very early miscarriage. As sad as this is,
it's a lot more common than most people realise. Perhaps the egg failed to divide
properly, or couldn't implant in the wall of the uterus due to a defect with
either the egg or the sperm that fertilised it. But it does mean that the basic
mechanisms have been working - a sound egg fertilised by a good sperm stands
every chance of resulting in a healthy baby.
Cramping just
a few days after a positive result
As soon as a healthy egg has been fertilised, and makes its way down the
Fallopian tube to the uterus, the blood supply to the uterus increases
dramatically. Even at this early stage, it starts to increase in size, and this
can cause cramps very similar to those you may get just before your period.
Don't panic! Cramping and funny pains may be felt all the way through your pregnancy. This tends to be because
the uterus doesn't just float there in your abdomen, it's held in place by
connective tissue that all has to stretch to accommodate your expanding baby.
Don't forget that your entire lower abdomen gets completely rearranged by all
this - and who knows where the ovaries end up! Curling up with a hot water
bottle can help.
Need to urinate more often
You may notice a need to urinate more often - the bladder is so close to the uterus
that its own blood supply is increased too. It seems terribly unfair to be
getting up every few hours in the night already, but look on it as practice for
later, and be grateful you don't have to change diapers yet. The best way to avoid sleep interruptions is to drinkl less in the evening. However, it's important to ensure that you don't become dehydrated either.
Spotting
Several of the ladies on the "Got Pregnant" board experienced spotting at 6-8
weeks of pregnancy, and to a woman, we all panicked, thinking we were losing our
babies. What we were actually experiencing was "implantation spotting" - when
the embryo burrows into the wall of your womb, it can cause spotting - just a
bit of dark brown blood. A scan showed that all was well, and even picked up a
heartbeat in some instances. So if you do experience this, it's probably
nothing to worry about (It's one thing we always warn the new ladies on the
board about!), but if the blood is red, or you have crampy pains, do seek
medical advice immediately.
Mucus
You may have been charting your waking temperatures and cervical mucus while
trying to conceive. If not, and you find the concept of mucus a bit icky, you'd
best get used to it, because it gets worse!! Pregnancy is EXTREMELY biological,
and not very glamourous! Anyway, due to the increase in blood flow to the soft
tissues of the body, you may well find that not only does your vaginal discharge
increase (causing you to leave snail trails all over the place), but also your
nasal mucus... Nice. There are some of us who have had a runny nose since
conception... It's nothing that can't be dealt with by a panty liner, although
blowing your nose on one might get you a few strange looks. As long as the
vaginal mucus is clear or white, and doesn't smell nasty, it's nothing to worry
about. Just avoid sliding down banisters for a while.
Morning
Sickness
Some women get it, some don't. Nobody really knows what causes it, but it is
believed to be linked to low blood sugar and the elevated levels of progesterone
in the bloodstream. Some have even gone so far as to call it "progesterone
poisoning". In many cases, it starts very early on, around the time of your
first missed period, and tends to wear off at 12-14 weeks. However, one member
didn't get any until 11 weeks, and it's still there at 20! Some really unlucky
ladies suffer all the way through pregnancy.
One of the most frequent cry for help
on the board is for ideas to quell the morning sickness. Perhaps we should
refer to it as morning, noon and night sickness, as it really can hit at any
time. Suggestions for relief have included (in no particular order):
Ginger biscuits, ginger beer, anything
with ginger in (it helps many, but not all sufferers)
Fizzy drinks, especially lemonade
Dry crackers
Clear soup
Basically, if it will stay down, eat it. Medics recommend eating little and
often - don't let yourself get too hungry. Do try to take a good prenatal
vitamin, and your baby won't suffer. Extreme cases of morning sickness can
require hospitalisation for a few days, mainly to prevent dehydration. If you
have decided to keep your pregnancy a secret for the first 12 weeks, it can be
pretty tiring to have to sneak off to be sick. Many ladies lose a bit of weight
due to this, but the baby is taking everything it needs before you get any of
it, so don't worry. You will get plenty of sympathy and understanding on the
Got Pregnant board if you get morning sickness badly, because most of us know
just how horrible it is! Some users have found acupressure wrist bands - usually
sold for travel sickness - help too.
Headaches
Often referred to as hormonal headaches, these can make life pretty miserable,
especially as the only thing we pregnant ladies can take for them is
paracetamol (known as Tylenol in the U.S.). The best thing is loads of water, as dehydration can make it so
much worse. Stopping for a catnap can also help a bit too.
Fatigue
As with morning sickness, some ladies find this worse than others. The books
will lead you to believe that you will feel pretty drained for the first three
months, feel full of beans for the middle three, and tired again for the last
three. This is not always the case. Some ladies feel fine all the way through,
some feel exhausted all the way through. We have one member who could happily
manage 23 hours sleep in 24, and at halfway through, still has to have a little
lie down after making a cup of tea.
Sometimes, you may get overcome with the overwhelming desire to just go to sleep
for a bit. Don't fight it, there is no point, you will lose. It can be a bit
tricky if nobody knows about your pregnancy, but if you can, shut your eyes for
ten minutes or so.
Our advice would be, sleep when you can, just be led by what your body is
telling you to do!
Backache
Right from the word go, you may get backaches low down. This is caused by a
hormone called relaxin, which loosens all your joints to allow a baby to pass
through your pelvis. It can also make your feet grow up to a size too, and this
is irreversible, but that's another story. The increased blood flow to the area
may also contribute to the ache. Later on, the weight out front will pull on
your lower spine, which also makes it ache. Rubbing it, a warm (not hot) bath
and lots of tea and sympathy from your partner also help!
Aching hips
Some of us on the board found that we got aching hips in the night. It is
recommended you sleep on your side during pregnancy, particularly your left, as
it provides the best blood flow to your baby. This can cause achy hips - we're
not quite sure why! A body pillow can help allieviate this a bit, try putting
it between your knees while lying on your side.
Sore breasts
Blood flow to your breasts increases very early on, as they start to make all
the milk producing glands and ducts. Some women noticed a significant increase
in size in the first few weeks, and it is very important to get measured for a
well fitting maternity bra. Breasts can also be very tender - the best advice
is to leave yourself a little more space in doorways than you are used to, to
avoid walking into them! You might also notice the nipples and aureolae
darkening a little, or veins becoming more obvious. They can take on a life of
their own during early pregnancy, so look after them, and wih any luck, they
won't be hovering round your knees in later life.
None of the
recognised signs of pregnancy!
Not everyone gets any of the above pregnancy symptoms. So there's no
need to worry if you seem to be breezing through the first few weeks without a
hint of discomfort - just don't be too smug about it!
Paranoia
Almost everyone on the Got Pregnant board has felt a bit paranoid that it's all
going to go horribly wrong. This is perfectly normal, and just another side
effect of those pesky hormones. It's a big bit of news to take in - you're
going to be a mummy. You need time to adjust mentally, but your body is
galloping on ahead with all these changes before you've got your head round the
whole thing. It can be a frightening time, all the pregnancy books give
ridiculously high miscarriage statistics, and every twinge makes you panic. You
will get loads of support from the ladies on the board, and you'll no doubt find
that at 12 weeks you feel much more confident about the whole thing, and
offering advice and support to the new girls.
Click here to return to our guide to Pregnancy books.
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